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How to WriteErotica.
Complete guide to writing sex scenes that actually arouse. From first draft to polished story. Learn the techniques successful erotica authors use - tension, pacing, word choice, and emotional depth.
Essential Writing Tips
What separates compelling erotica from forgettable smut
Emotion First
Physical acts mean nothing without emotional context. Why do they want each other? What's at stake?
Specific Details
Vague descriptions don't arouse. Be specific about sensations, sounds, smells, textures
Vary Your Pacing
Short sentences for intensity. Longer ones for buildup. Vary rhythm to control the reader's experience
Show Anticipation
The buildup is often hotter than the climax. Delay gratification. Use near-misses and interruptions
Read Widely
Read successful erotica in your target genre. Notice what works, what doesn't, what language is used
Write What Arouses You
Your authentic desire comes through. If you're not into it, readers won't be either
Sex Scene Structure
Every good scene follows an arc - don't skip to the climax
1. Buildup
Tension, anticipation, awareness of each other
2. Catalyst
What breaks the tension - a touch, words, decision
3. Escalation
Increasing intensity, emotional and physical
4. Climax
Peak of physical and emotional intensity
5. Resolution
Aftermath, what has changed between them
Common Mistakes to Avoid
- ✗Purple prose that sounds ridiculous ('his throbbing manhood')
- ✗Ignoring emotional buildup and jumping straight to sex
- ✗Anatomically impossible positions without explanation
- ✗Perfect, porny bodies with no character substance
- ✗Every encounter ending in simultaneous orgasms
- ✗Forgetting about cleanup, contraception, or realistic details
- ✗Repetitive word choices (he/she groaned appears 47 times)
- ✗Sex scenes that don't reveal character or advance plot
Questions & Answers
Start with what turns you on. Read widely in the genre to understand pacing and language. Begin with short scenes before full stories. Focus on emotion and sensation, not just physical acts. Write your first draft fast without self-editing - you can refine later.
Erotica emphasizes emotional context, character development, and buildup alongside explicit content. Porn focuses primarily on physical acts. Erotica engages the mind through anticipation, tension, and character chemistry - the physical scenes are enhanced by emotional investment.
As explicit as you want. The genre ranges from 'closed door' (fade to black) to extremely explicit. What matters is emotional engagement and arousal. Some readers prefer suggestive language, others want graphic detail. Match your style to your target audience.
Focus on sensation, emotion, and specific details. Use all five senses. Build anticipation before the scene. Vary sentence rhythm - short for intensity, longer for buildup. Include emotional reactions alongside physical. Make each scene reveal character or advance the relationship.
This depends on tone. Clinical terms (penis, vagina) can feel cold. Purple prose (throbbing member) can feel ridiculous. Find a middle ground that matches your style. Consider your POV character's voice. Consistency matters more than specific words.
Delay gratification. Use interrupted moments, near-misses, and obstacles. Show characters aware of each other physically. Use meaningful glances, accidental touches, charged dialogue. The anticipation of sex is often more arousing than the act itself.
Yes. AI like NarrativeAI can help generate ideas, write scenes, overcome writer's block, and explore scenarios you might not write yourself. You can use it as a starting point and refine, or let it create complete stories to your specifications.
Make consent clear and enthusiastic. This can be explicit ('I want you') or demonstrated through enthusiastic participation. Even in dubcon scenarios, smart authors make the fictional nature clear. Readers engage more when characters actively desire each other.
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